just Trnaslete from google trnaslete, grammar mistakes may happen
1. Allah says, which meant: “And they gaulilah (wife-wives) the best way.” (An-Nisa 19)
2. And God said again: ‘And the women have equal rights with obligations under a good way to but men have a level advantage over his wife. “(Al-Baqarah: 228)
3. Dicentakan of the Prophet that the king said at the time of pilgrimage widak (separation) after the king praised Allah and His flatter and advise the hadinn the maksudnya’Ingatlah (O my people!), Please accept my message to do good to their isten, the wives were only able which are compared to your friend by your side, you can not have anything other than their den to do good, except if the wives were doing a despicable act clearly (insubordination or disobedience) then leave them in bed Sandman dar beat them with a punch that does not hurt. If the wife was obedient unto the wife then do not bother looking for a way mereka.Ingatlah uncut! Surely you terhad4 obligations mempun yai 8. wife-wives, and in fact his wife’s got a great sterimu obligations to the wife dinmu wife Kernudian obligation to dinmu is they should not allow people into your home masuf you benci.Ingatlah! Obligation to them is that they are with melayaa you balk when it comes to their clothing and food. (Tarmizi History and Ibn Ma) ah;.
4. Rasulullah SAW said that meant: “The obligation of a husband against his wife is the husband had to feed him when he eats and clothe him when he was dressed and can not hit his face and not boo him, and also may not leave unless dalarn bed (when the wife disobedient). “(History of Abu Daud)
5. The Prophet SAW said to mean: “Who are the men who marry women dengat dowry sedangkar little or a lot in his heart he did not intend to give these women’s rights (dowry) to him. Then he has been deceived, kernudian if he died, was he not give the woman her rights and he will meet Allah on the Day of Resurrection, in a state of adultery. ”
6. The Prophet SAW said to mean “Verily the Believers class fermasuk the most perfect faith ialat virtuous they pekertinya and their more subtle in the mix the family (children ister. and kaurr relatives).”
7. The Prophet SAW said to mean: “The people who you all are terbaikdan them better and you’re in the mix and my family are the best and you all da / am mix my family.” (Ibn History Asaker)
8. Narrated from the Prophet that the king said to mean: “He who patiently base character istennya bad, so God gave him a reward equal to the reward to the Prophet Job dibenkan for patience as his ordeal.” The temptation to pad the Prophet Job was four thing: Out of all the world bendanya.Meninggal property anaknya.Hancur badannya.Dijauhi by humans except for his wife named RahmahDan a wife whose patience on the manners of a poor husband will be rewarded by God with the wife of Pharaoh Asiah reward.
9. Al-Habib Abdullah Al Haddad said: “a man who is perfect in her that makes her obligations and did not make in its obligations to God. And the men, the less is he who is the opposite.” Purposes and this explanation is a husband who’s been willing to forgive if his wife does not adorn herself and did not serve him with a perfect and others but he was firm if his wife did not pray or fast and lainlain, that’s the perfect husband. And a husband who was hard when his wife did not decorate her or not properly serve him and others but indifferent (cold) if the wife left the duties to God as prayer, fasting and so on, he’s a husband who kuranq .
10. Recommended for a husband watching his wife (mengingalkannya clan with a gentle tone / smooth) and according to his ability and menafkahinya strong force (if hurt by his wife) and be smooth and direct him to the road mengajamya balk and religious laws that need it like diketahut purification, January menstrual devotions are mandatory or circumcision.
11. Allah says which meant: ‘O ye who believe! Take care of yourself and your family experts from the Fire. “(At Tahnm: 6)
12. Ibn Abbas said: “Give them knowledge and religion to give lessons to good manners to them.” And Ibn ‘Umar from the Prophet Muhammad that the king said:’ Tap-each you are a responsible leader and the lead pads. A priest who led the man is the leader and he was responsible at, is its people. A husband is the leader in the care of his family expert base He was responsible for the lead. A wife is the leader in household and family responsibility reasons. A servant is a leader in the care of the property master, he is responsible for his domestic base. A man is a leader in taking care of his father’s property, he is responsible pet mats. So each of you all are leaders and each one of you should be responsible pads lead. “(Muttallaq ‘alai hl
13. The Prophet SAW said to mean: ‘~’ Fear God in memimpir wife-ist ~ rimr, because they are located disampingmu trust, who does not memenntahkan st olat his wife and does not teach religion to him, then he has betrayed Allah and His Messenger His. ”
14. Allah says which meant: “Let your family for prayers.” (Taha: 132) ‘
And told the Prophet that the king said that bernaksud: “No person with menjumpaiAllah swt greater sin than a husband who can not afford to educate his family.”
HUSBAND OF LIABILITY CONCLUSION
1. Wife and children became the leader in the household.
2. Teach science Fardhu Ain (obligatory) to the wife and children is the science of Tawheed, Fiqh and taught monotheism tasawuf.Ilmu according to aqidah aqidahnya Sunnah wal Jamaah experts. Science is taught to all the fiqh of worship in accordance with the will of Sufism taught agama.Ilmu sincere in that they can keep doing a good deed and all deeds than dirosakkan by his riyak, proudly, pointing and others.
3. To feed, drink, clothing and shelter dariuang and business scholars halal.Ada said: ‘Once clothed wife and child who cheer their hearts and permitted the reward husband for 70 years. ”
4.Tidak menzalimi wife and children is by: Providing the perfect religious education. Provide physical and spiritual living secukupnya.Memberi rebuke and advice and give guidance / instructions when doing immoral or wrong. If the strike not to injure (beyond the limit).
5. Give advice if the wife likes to curse, scold sertamelakukan something contrary to the religious orders.
6. Serving wife with the best of relationships.
7. Talking with wife gently.
8. Keterlanjurannya forgive but very concerned about his behavior with the Shari’a kesesuaiar2.tingkah
9. Subtract the debate.
10. keep of maruah.
January 27th, 2010 at 1:41 am
Hmm… yup you just to translate from Indonesia language to English but you forget to check again that grammar right… so i cant understand yet… heh